It was a summer afternoon. My friend Meena & I were comfortably
ensconced in her room, just back from college and talking incessantly. All that
chatter, so important then but so little of which one remembers, today. Meena's mother
must have known this or she must have been a tad fed up of our afternoon
routine, while she worked hard to run a popular cookery class from home. "You
lazy girls join my class and learn a new skill. Madhu, I will have a word with
your mother", she chided us. An afternoon I have looked back upon, fondly
and thanked Aunty in the quiet corner of my heart.
My story, however, goes back a few years prior to that afternoon. It is
so important to start on a learning journey with the right words of
appreciation and encouragement. My first attempt at baking was in school in our
vocational training class. Our Principal, a distinguished Welsh lady looked at
the texture of my cake and called it perfect. You have to have a "light
hand for mixing the ingredients", or something similar, she said. Her
lovely smile, twinkling eyes, have stayed tucked away in some corner of my
mind.
It was from Aunty, though, I learnt every type of traditional cakes -
Victorian sponges, Swiss rolls, meadlines, éclairs, fruit cakes, gateaux,
shortbreads and more. When she had shared all that she knew, she put us in for
a professional training on icings - royal, butter, glaze, fondant &
marzipan.

Another time Dad was making a Bombay to Calcutta tour and I baked a cake
for my Aunt's family. The praise appeared a little disproportionate for my
efforts, even after discounting for doting relatives. On prodding Dad, he
mentioned that the icing had got messed up in transit. He handed it over to the
Chef at Oberoi's who obviously did more than a touch-up!
Friends’ birthdays, sister's wedding anniversary, a thank you to Mom's
doctor after an operation, house parties, calling at a friend’s, whatever the
occasion, I baked. My interest got further sealed with some early orders.
Particularly, in those days, a swiss roll was not common. I used to keep the
earnings (a princely Rs 25/- for an eight inch roll), the ingredients and
electricity charged to parents.
Then came the children's birthdays. When I look back at the photos of my
nephew's first birthday, the cakes sure look amateur. As the family
extended, birthdays and anniversaries helped me perfect the art. However,
somewhere, along the journey, the work and travel pressures slowly relegated
this interest to the background. We turned towards bought out cakes, as I
rushed in and out of the city on multiple sales tours. One year, probably on my
daughter’s 12th birthday, she refused to have a cake ordered out and
that became a turning point. A cricket bat, Noddy or Spiderman for my son and
dainty Barbie doll dresses to jewel boxes for my daughter; I returned to baking
birthday cakes.
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The daughter is a perfectionist |

There is a lot of joy in such gifting!