I am told that efficient and important people are opting to wear
the same clothes to work, daily. Apparently it improves overall quality of
decision making as brain cells are not engaged on "idle matters such as
clothes". Last evening stumbling on one of those typical self improvement
reads - '4 ways to avoid decision fatigue', I found the latest on this list
were President Obama and Mark Zuckerberg. Agreed, some may have a very good
reason for such a choice. The story of Matilda Kahl, an Art Director was doing
the rounds on social network for some time. She owns some half a dozen black
trousers and a dozen odd identical white silk shirts and has found this dress
code de-stressing.
No matter how sensible, I don't see myself opting out of my a 'different' saree, daily, choice. The ritual begins with me standing in front of the array in my cupboard (here again, I have not understood friends who plan in advance and pair saree, shoes and handbags for a full week). Temperature, daylight factor, meetings through the day and particularly my mood jostle to decide on the right color. I must admit over the years I have brought some process improvements with silks and cottons clearly assigned (separate wardrobes) to winter and summer, respectively. Saree decided, the next few minutes of silent cursing commences in search of the normally elusive blouse. The new trend of matching blouse pieces, in an offsetting tone admittedly makes the saree look smarter and the temper frayed. Petticoats are another story altogether and I shall share, later, my let down tale.
The part, I like most is drawing the pleats. There is something quite calming in getting the folds in uniform parts in place. Gathering the folds over my shoulder, particularly if the saree has a decorative border, makes me feel lovely and happy. Safety pin in place, by now, the crucial minutes are ticking away. A recalcitrant starched cotton saree does make the calmness vanish in seconds. Frequently and especially on a summer morning, sweating with all this effort I vow to shift to churidar kurtas.
Many a modern girl finds it difficult to wear a saree to work. Complaining about the time it takes to tie one to holding it in place. May be I was born to wear one and took to it like a fish. A college event or even friend's birthday was a good enough reason to wear a saree. In Mumbai this was rare and revisiting college photographs I find myself the odd one out. There is definitely a practical view on the subject and my early days at work I too had opted for skirts and salwar kurtas. Given my petite built it was undeniable that the saree added weight to frame and personality. Even if not 5 days a week, then, post marriage those few odd days were also plugged in with my mother in law clearly in favour of sarees.
In an itinerant sales job I was lucky to have many saree destinations on my list. Initially, Chennai, Lucknow and later Udaipur, Kota. It was however the Internet that increased my awareness and the real discoveries were Bhagalpur and Raipur. In the late 90s The Kolkata Chennai flight would land around 9:00 pm and allow me time for a quick dash to Nallis before heading for the Hotel. The most treasured collection, of course, is the Jamdanis from Dhaka. A special mention here for the additional travel by my sister and husband and their contribution in both numbers and exquisite choice. If my cupboard weighs a little heavily on Ikats and Jamdanis mostly in shades of beige and black - I owe these to Sumit and my best colourful silks to Didi's Bangalore tours.
While travel only means more sarees, preparing and packing for one brings it's own challenges. In a fairly organised life of practically weekly tours it is funny how Murphy knew when to strike. We had several Group HQ changes in 2015 with an impending merger. The new Chairman was just announced and we were to go to Mumbai to present the business. The meeting was at The Taj and I opted to stay at the Royal Bombay Yacht Club, which is a hop and skip away. Understandably, with only an hour to go I began to get ready. Out came the saree and blouse. Oops! I had forgotten to pack the petticoat. Over 20 years of touring and this had to happen before an extremely important meeting. Carefully wrapping my saree (thankfully a somewhat heavy kantha work silk) over my track pants I made it to The Taj. It was a first-hand experience of finding out that a five star hotel can handle your every need.
And, no, I have never forgotten to carry a blouse. Not so far.